Mental Game of Poker Excerpt – Fear Part 1 Slots Gambling

Mental Game of Poker Excerpt – Fear Part 1

July 12, 2011

The Mental Game of Poker by Jared Tendler and Barry Carter

In a poker world where everything short of playing your best is called tilt, players barely notice anxiety and fear. Defining tilt as just being caused by anger allows fear to emerge as a real contributor to mental game problems. Fear was there all along, but unless you had the ability to spot it, it’s likely you’d miss its role in causing of problems in your game; many players do. You may not realize that fear can be the cause of struggling to think clearly, constantly checking past hands for mistakes, or why you lack the energy to play.

While you may not experience fear in a big way, it may show up more subtly in one of the following ways:

Fear is an accumulation of anxiety.

Anxiety is an accumulation of doubt or uncertainty.

Uncertainty is essentially a question you don’t have the answer for or don’t have enough experience to prove the answer you already have is correct. When these questions are unanswered or unproven, doubt lingers and eventually accumulates into anxiety. If this goes on long enough, it turns into fear. As with other emotions, fear exists along a spectrum, only it begins as a question.

By digging into your fear, you can pull out the questions that are unanswered or unproven. Uncovering the questions underlying your fear is important because they indicate what you want to know at a deeper level. The following are examples of common questions poker players have:

Sometimes these questions often linger in a player’s mind without being answered, while at other times they’re answered automatically with responses such as, “It’s because I’m stupid that I make these mistakes,” “I’ll never be successful if I can’t beat the fish,” “The bad run is never going to end,” or “It’s because I’m just not a good enough player to ever make it as a pro.” These answers only perpetuate fear.

It may seem overly simplistic to reduce fear down to a question, but think about it logically. When you have certainty, there’s nothing to fear. This is why people who have certainty display confidence even when they’re wrong.

If you were 100% sure that online poker was going to be legalized and would lead to a second poker boom, it would be illogical to worry about it going away. If you were 100% sure that your bad run was going to end in 10,000 hands, you wouldn’t think twice about sitting down to play those 10,000 hands as quickly as possible. As simple as it sounds, certainty is the antidote to fear.

Unpredictability or uncertainty alone does not create anxiety, just as anger alone does not create tilt. To reach that level of intensity requires underlying flaws in how you’re approaching and learning poker. The end goal is not to eliminate uncertainty; it’s to correct the underlying flaws in your logic that force you to need certainty when you really don’t want to have it. Without uncertainty, there is no risk. Without risk, there is nothing to gain in poker, no edge to create, and no profit to be made.

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